In India, Most of the marriages will be Arranged ones. Even Though we watch many many love stories in Indian Movies, In Real Life it can't be possible because of various reasons.
A Boy(< 25 Age)/A Man( > 25 Age) will see a Girl/Lady and fall in Love.
But, he/she doesn't know the age of other person, doesn't know the CASTE of other person, doesn't the Employment/Education Status of other person.
Ok. Even if one comes to know about all the stuff, then intercaste Marriage/UnEmployment/Less Education will always lead to drop off of LOVE.
Hence ARRANGED MARRIAGE comes into Picture.
OK OK ... I am coming into the point of ARRANGED MARRIAGE.
ARRANGED MARRIAGE is good if the Bride & Groom doesn't have any problems after Marriage. On the other side of the COIN, It is obviously BAD if they face all PROBLEMS after Marriage which leads to DIVORCE/EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS/DEATH/SUICIDE etc.... all of these which we are seeing DAILY in News Papers.
What If we have a FORMULAE/PROCESS that makes the ARRANGED MARRIAGE successful atleast to 60%.
1)The Bride/Groom won't have a better communication until the MARRIAGE. Hence, the pair needs to adjust/Manage/Mould themselves in order to satisfy the other. If NONE of the pair are not willing to do so, then obviously it leads to distruction of MARRIAGE.
BETTER COMMUNICATION :
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What is meant by BETTER COMMUNICATION? Does it mean to talk with each other 24/7 daily in mobile on unnecessary stuff like what have you eaten, what are you doing, what did you do yesterday, what are doing now, today etc....?
In my Opinion, He/She should know ABOUT
1)Other Person's Character by posing the questions related to them.
2)How He/She takes a Decision?
3)How He/She treats Elders/Youngers?
4)How Many Friends does HE/SHE has?
5)If your father gives one Lakh rupees to you what will you do?
He/She should prepare a list of questions and need to have a conversation with Bride/Groom.
I am listing out some of the Questions for sample.
1)By knowing the Academic Career of 10th/12th/Degree Percentages you can get to know about his/her's Intelligence.
The Percentages might have come by Mugging/ Pure Intelligence. What ever it is, It shows the Concentration,Punctuality He/She has over Education.
2)How many friends does He/She has?
What are the Names of his/her's Best Friends?
While having this conversation the answers should come abruptly or within few seconds or can take some time. But the answers should come, otherwise, it clearly determines the person as INTROVERT and needs to take MORE time to mingle with OTHERS.
3)What are the Achievements He/She made till now?
4)What does MARRIAGE mean in your opinion?
5)What does LOVE mean in your opinion?
6)How do you define MONEY?
The above are some of the sample ones, likewise you can prepare some on your OWN and pose them on your PARTNER accordingly.
Make Sure you do have ANSWERS before you POSE to your PARTNER. If you don't know/had Bad the answer then you are UNFIT to your PARTNER.
Prepare a List like this, Give some points which makes you Satisfactory.
After the conversation, check the Points and then goahead/carry on accordingly.
There is an African Proverb
"Show me your friend and I will show you your character."
Get to Know about the Friends of HIM/HER and have a conversation with them to know your PARTNER's Character.
A Boy(< 25 Age)/A Man( > 25 Age) will see a Girl/Lady and fall in Love.
But, he/she doesn't know the age of other person, doesn't know the CASTE of other person, doesn't the Employment/Education Status of other person.
Ok. Even if one comes to know about all the stuff, then intercaste Marriage/UnEmployment/Less Education will always lead to drop off of LOVE.
Hence ARRANGED MARRIAGE comes into Picture.
OK OK ... I am coming into the point of ARRANGED MARRIAGE.
ARRANGED MARRIAGE is good if the Bride & Groom doesn't have any problems after Marriage. On the other side of the COIN, It is obviously BAD if they face all PROBLEMS after Marriage which leads to DIVORCE/EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS/DEATH/SUICIDE etc.... all of these which we are seeing DAILY in News Papers.
What If we have a FORMULAE/PROCESS that makes the ARRANGED MARRIAGE successful atleast to 60%.
1)The Bride/Groom won't have a better communication until the MARRIAGE. Hence, the pair needs to adjust/Manage/Mould themselves in order to satisfy the other. If NONE of the pair are not willing to do so, then obviously it leads to distruction of MARRIAGE.
BETTER COMMUNICATION :
=======================
What is meant by BETTER COMMUNICATION? Does it mean to talk with each other 24/7 daily in mobile on unnecessary stuff like what have you eaten, what are you doing, what did you do yesterday, what are doing now, today etc....?
In my Opinion, He/She should know ABOUT
1)Other Person's Character by posing the questions related to them.
2)How He/She takes a Decision?
3)How He/She treats Elders/Youngers?
4)How Many Friends does HE/SHE has?
5)If your father gives one Lakh rupees to you what will you do?
He/She should prepare a list of questions and need to have a conversation with Bride/Groom.
I am listing out some of the Questions for sample.
1)By knowing the Academic Career of 10th/12th/Degree Percentages you can get to know about his/her's Intelligence.
The Percentages might have come by Mugging/ Pure Intelligence. What ever it is, It shows the Concentration,Punctuality He/She has over Education.
2)How many friends does He/She has?
What are the Names of his/her's Best Friends?
While having this conversation the answers should come abruptly or within few seconds or can take some time. But the answers should come, otherwise, it clearly determines the person as INTROVERT and needs to take MORE time to mingle with OTHERS.
3)What are the Achievements He/She made till now?
4)What does MARRIAGE mean in your opinion?
5)What does LOVE mean in your opinion?
6)How do you define MONEY?
The above are some of the sample ones, likewise you can prepare some on your OWN and pose them on your PARTNER accordingly.
Make Sure you do have ANSWERS before you POSE to your PARTNER. If you don't know/had Bad the answer then you are UNFIT to your PARTNER.
Prepare a List like this, Give some points which makes you Satisfactory.
After the conversation, check the Points and then goahead/carry on accordingly.
There is an African Proverb
"Show me your friend and I will show you your character."
Get to Know about the Friends of HIM/HER and have a conversation with them to know your PARTNER's Character.
