What I WISH

MEDIA(NEWSPAPER/TV CHANNELS) :

                                   All are equipped with Murders,Deaths,Attacks,SUICIDES etc majorly.

       ****  Newspapers shouldn't get any Bad NEWS even if they search thru BIOSCOPE.

        *** The Newspaper should be filled with only good news of NEW                         BIRTHS,MARRIAGES,FESTIVALS.

 ***AD LESS NEWSPAPERS.

GOD :

                  () Mostly 98% of people go to temples becoz of FEAR of HIM. 

                  ()100% of people will definitely ASK something in RETURN by giving atleast 1 RUPEE                      to HIM.                                     

                 

                 ()People shouldn't do prayers with  FEAR of GOD.

                 ()They should get PEACE when they go to TEMPLE and they would get it only if they 

                    won't make a checklist of what needs to ASK GOD.

WIN/LOSS :

                      ()where ever there is a SPORT, obviously there would be a WINNER and a LOSER.

                      ()one should keep in MIND that a WINNER of today of a particular SPORT will be                                replaced by SOMEBODY at some point of TIME.

  

SCHOOLS :

                      ()Most of the Countries give EDUCATION  via SCHOOLS/COLLEGES to children.

                      ()70% of the STUDENTS are facing UNEMPLOYMENT once they step into LIFE.

                      

                      ()Government should remove certain DEGREES which are of no USE TODAY.

                      ()Government should produce STATISTICS in TV's of the POSITIONS that are                                      available for the particular YEAR for the particular DEGREES.

                      ()At School Level, Teachers should be given proper TRAINING of  What course 

                         should the STUDENTS take after their SCHOOLING that might help their FUTURE.

                 

Going To Have ARRANGED MARRIAGE??? How to Make it Efficient?

                                 In India, Most of the marriages will be Arranged ones. Even Though we watch many many love stories in Indian Movies, In Real Life it can't be possible because of various reasons.

                                  A Boy(< 25 Age)/A Man( > 25 Age) will see a Girl/Lady and fall in Love.

But, he/she doesn't know the age of other person, doesn't know the CASTE of other person, doesn't the Employment/Education Status of other person.

Ok. Even if one comes to know about all the stuff, then intercaste Marriage/UnEmployment/Less Education will always lead to drop off  of LOVE.

Hence ARRANGED MARRIAGE comes into Picture.

OK OK ... I am coming into the point of ARRANGED MARRIAGE.

                                       ARRANGED MARRIAGE is good if  the Bride & Groom doesn't have any problems after Marriage. On the other side of the COIN, It is obviously BAD if they face all PROBLEMS after Marriage which leads to DIVORCE/EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS/DEATH/SUICIDE etc.... all of these which we are seeing DAILY in News Papers.

                                      What If we have a FORMULAE/PROCESS  that makes the ARRANGED MARRIAGE successful atleast to 60%.


1)The Bride/Groom won't have a better communication until the MARRIAGE. Hence, the pair needs to adjust/Manage/Mould themselves in order to satisfy the other. If NONE of the pair are not willing to do so, then obviously it leads to distruction of MARRIAGE.

BETTER COMMUNICATION :
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                          What is meant by BETTER COMMUNICATION? Does it mean to talk with each other 24/7 daily in mobile on unnecessary stuff like what have you eaten, what are you doing, what did you do yesterday, what are doing now, today etc....?

                                     In my Opinion, He/She should know ABOUT

                                   1)Other Person's Character by posing the questions related to them.
                                   2)How He/She takes a Decision?
                                   3)How He/She treats Elders/Youngers?
                                   4)How Many Friends does HE/SHE has?
                                   5)If your father gives one Lakh rupees to you what will you do?
                                 

He/She should prepare a list of questions and need to have a conversation with  Bride/Groom.

I am listing out some of the Questions for sample.

1)By knowing the Academic Career of 10th/12th/Degree Percentages you can get to know about his/her's Intelligence.
The Percentages might have come by Mugging/ Pure Intelligence. What ever it is, It shows the Concentration,Punctuality He/She has over Education.

2)How many friends does He/She has?
    What are the Names of  his/her's Best Friends?
While having this conversation the answers should come abruptly or within few seconds or can take some time. But the answers should come, otherwise, it clearly determines the person as INTROVERT and needs to take MORE time to mingle with OTHERS.

3)What are the Achievements He/She made till now?

4)What does  MARRIAGE mean in your opinion?

5)What does LOVE mean in your opinion?

6)How do you define MONEY?

The above are some of the sample ones, likewise you can prepare some on your OWN and pose them  on your PARTNER accordingly.

                            Make Sure you do have ANSWERS before you POSE to your PARTNER. If you don't know/had Bad  the answer then you are UNFIT to your PARTNER.

                          Prepare a List like this, Give some points which makes you Satisfactory.
After the conversation, check the Points and then goahead/carry on accordingly.


There is an African Proverb

"Show me your friend and I will show you your character." 

Get to Know about the Friends of HIM/HER and have a conversation with them to know your PARTNER's Character.

What If I KNOW MOSQUITOES Language?

                                        Yesterday I got a wierd thought about MOSQUITOES.
At my Home, Lots of mosquitoes daily enjoying being in HEAVEN as they suck the blood of ours like anything.
                         

                   1)If Mosquitoes are very less, I was thinking like MOSQUITOES might have gone for a marriage of one of the mosquitoes relative.

                  2)If I come to know Mosquitoes Language, I would ask them what they are in need of other than blood and provide it so that both of us are beneficial(Atleast sucking blood will be avoided).

                  3)More over I can open a Training Centre, How to Learn MOSQUITOES LANGUAGE in 30 days (FULLY REFUNDED IF language not comes) and can become a MILLIONAIRE.

                 4)If we know the MOSQUITOE LANGUAGE, we don't need an ARMY for a country also. MOSQUITOES ARMY will suck the blood of ENEMIES before they attack us.

                 

Think/Listen About Failures/Losses/Wrongs/Bads

                                                Every body likes Music. Hence we tend to listen good songs.
If the SONG is very good we listen it more than once. If it is a chartbuster we tend to listen it more oftenly.

                                                If we take out time say for 10 min. on a jolly free SUNDAY and think about the FAILURES of ourselves, If possible RECORD them in a MOBILE  by talking to your own.
                                               
                                                 You might know the answer to that FAILURE, HOW to make it to SUCCESS. But if you don't know then GOOGLE it or ASK your COLLEAGUE/PARENTS/WELL WISHERS in order to figure out the ANSWER.

                                                  Once you got the ANSWER,AGAIN tell it yourself and RECORD it in your MOBILE. Listen the SOLUTION like a CHARTBUSTER song Everyday, till you get the confidence that you never make it FAIL again.

                                                  

A Blind Man's Family Walk

                         
   I was waiting for a train i.e scheduled at 9 pm. The train about to come in 10 minutes. I have seen a Blind couple(both Husband & Wife are blind), wife carrying a baby in her hand passing by a distance of 10 metres to me.The husband was walking carrying a stick, hitting it on the ground he is knowing the path and walking. His wife was holding his shirt and was following him.
                             
                                                  My heart was trembling by seeing those couple. At any point of time, they will fall on the ground as the path has steps in front. But, it didn't happen. They were walking safely. Along with me, all the passengers who were waiting on the platform have become spectators.
                     
                                I felt so ashamed because of not helping  them to reach out of the railway station.
All the people, whom the blind couple were passing within a handful touch distance also were moving to left or right and giving them a way to pass them and not  helping them by taking the blind man's hand and  help them for a certain distance.

                                   I was hanging over there by collecting my thoughts over the blind couple once they  are out of my eyesight.

                                  First Thought :

•  Is the path(From  A to C where B is passing Railway Station)  well known to them?
• How come  the person married to a Blind woman knowing he was also Blind?
• How come the couple carrying a child with them?
• How are they surviving on daily basis?
  

                              Second Thought :

• Can we call our PROBLEMS a PROBLEM we face in our(WE ARE NOT BLIND) life, when we think of how the BLIND couple life goes on daily?

Centralized Data Across COUNTRIES

                                        COUNTRY X....The Problems that are faced in COUNTRY X and remedies they have for them, If we get that data centralized then other countries can use it and implement it accordingly.

                                       We have the Passport related information containing in a database i.e used to verify the identity of the citizen.But it is more secured and can't be viewed by all the people.

                                        MOSQUITOES are common in most of the countries.
                                        UNEMPLOYMENT is common in most of the countries.
                                        DISEASES are common in most of the countries.

                                       If we have Centralized solutions related data for the above kind of common things of all the countries, then other countries can utilize the soloutions and can become developed countries.

GOD Exists or Not?

                                  For this Q, Everybody might have Watched Umpteen Movies, Read Articles/News like anything.
                                 Ultimately, NoBody has seen GOD till Now. GOD Hasn't come & shown up to anybody irrespective of RELIGION.

Highlights you find in Movies/News :

                          *People going to Pilgrim Towns to worship GOD, on Buses are  DYING every Year. Why GOD hasn't RESCUED them?
                          *Why GOD is not helping BEGGARS before TEMPLES?
                          *Why RAPES,MURDERS,PLANE CRASHES,EARTHQUAKES are happening if GOD exists?


Opinions you find in Movies/News :
                           *People made GOD.
                           *NoBody has seen GOD.
                           *People who SAVE/HELP other People irrespective of RELEGION/CASTE etc are                              only GOD's.    

Earning? Are you using it for your .........?

                         
                             Everybody is earning Money according to their capacity. But, Due to one's own situations, one is spending Money like anything and Hence it is happening like water passing from a PIPE with holes TOP & BOTTOM.

SCENARIO 1 :
                       1. List out your WISHES that wants to do in a span of a YEAR or TWO.
                       2. Put Money Aside accordingly for your OWN wishes.
                       3.SPEND it once your WISH DAY comes.

Everybody is a SLAVE to EGO/ANGER

                                   Once in a Life time, Everybody has become a SLAVE to EGO/ANGER.
It's very difficult to avoid EGO/ANGER in his own life. Facing various attitudes of people in our daily life, we unknowingly become a SLAVE to EGO/ANGER.

                                    But, Once you come to know it by thinking on the discussion/conservation you had which is the basis of EGO/ANGER, you can reduce your ANGER/EGO when we face the same kind of situation again. It can happen only when we think on the conservation/discussion and come to a conclusion like "I should have done this in a different way",  "I should have dealt it in a better way than this."